We teach ourselves a very important lesson as babies without even realizing it. We crawl until we learn to walk. We walk until we learn to run. We run until we learn to sprint. Regardless of how ugly our first steps may have been, without them we would never learn to walk, run or sprint. I know that once set my sights on something, that's it. It doesn't matter how long it takes, I … Continue reading Just Take A Step
The old cliche that "fear is not real" has never sat well with me because I couldn't disagree more. Fear is very real and it's everywhere. It can accompany a lot of the obstacles that we face throughout our lives and make overcoming those obstacles that much more challenging. Fear can bring even the strongest people to their knees but can also be molded into a powerful tool if we decide to face it head … Continue reading Fear Is Real
I spent the better portion of my teenage years like so many others trying to fit in with the crowd. I chased the newest trends and as they changed, so did I. I wanted approval from my peers and I wanted to be right in the middle of the crowd. Now I want the exact opposite. What changed? I realized the value in being unique. I realized that I don't want to fit in. I … Continue reading I don’t want to fit in.
TRUE G.R.O.W.T.H. Motivate. Inspire. Grow. Willpower to change As rational human beings we can easily become intimidated by the thought of change. We become comfortable with what we know and that often leads to complacency in the continuation of what comes easy to us. For most of us, the thought of taking risks to explore anything new can be challenging and anxiety producing. That is where the fourth principle of TRUE G.R.O.W.T.H. takes over; … Continue reading The Fourth Principle: Willpower to Change
TRUE G.R.O.W.T.H. Motivate. Inspire. Grow. Obstacles Vs. Opportunities The third principle of TRUE G.R.O.W.T.H. requires a willingness to embrace a new perspective on the value that obstacles and opportunities can bring to our lives. Instead of viewing these two core principles as polar opposite, TRUE G.R.O.W.T.H. integrates them both together for maximum effect. Instinctually, we view obstacles as negative challenges instead of building blocks to a stronger version of ourselves. The only difference … Continue reading The Third Principle: Obstacles vs. Opportunities
Motivate. Inspire. Grow. It is easy to cast blame when things don't go our way. We blame everything around us when we are not in the position we want to be in throughout life. Especially those of us in my generation who have embraced this mentality that if we fall, it must be because someone else tripped us. We struggle to accept the true value that self-accountability can bring to our lives. I myself, lived … Continue reading It’s Easy to Blame Others
Motivate. Inspire. Grow. One of my favorite movie quotes of all time is from the movie Tommy Boy. Chris Farley, "Tommy", barely skates through his final exam and graduates college and when David Spade "Richard" picks him up from the airport Tommy says, "A lot of people go to school for seven years" with Richard replying "Yea, they're called doctors!" Maybe this quote is just that funny or maybe I like it because it hits close … Continue reading A lot of people go to school for seven years…
Motivate. Inspire. Grow. TRUE G.R.O.W.T.H. G. Good People: The first step towards development and growth comes with the understanding that life is the ultimate team sport. Surround yourself with good people and the opportunities are endless. As we create aspirations for our future, we must identify those who will help keep us on our path. As strong as we believe we are as individuals, we are exponentially stronger together. Whether we are running a business, … Continue reading The First Principle of TRUE G.R.O.W.T.H.
Chasing accomplishments is a never ending journey if we fail to realize why we started on that journey in the first place. The beginning of the new year is the perfect time to realize the truth in this. We establish our resolutions and often fail to realize why they are important to us. We set out for higher paying jobs, better relationships, healthier lifestyles and bigger houses - but why? Why do we want the … Continue reading Ask yourself…”why”?
Life is about challenging ourselves today in a way we never thought possible yesterday. It's about setting goals that scare us. Some people are ok with minor improvements throughout their lives and honestly, there is nothing wrong with that. Some people are more comfortable living in the shadows and blending in with the crowd - but that's not me. Put me smack in the middle of the spotlight. My flaws and all. Put the pressure … Continue reading Spotlight or shadow?
It sucks that life doesn't always go our way. It also sucks that as soon as we take life in stride, obstacles suddenly appear to slow us down. But maybe they aren't there to slow us down but rather to make sure we don't become complacent. To ensure that we don't take life for granted and we don't lose sight of where we were headed. To remind us of how strong we actually are and … Continue reading Bend don’t break…
Take a moment and ask yourself; what is it in your life that you are beyond passionate about? It's not an easy question to answer, and if it is, you likely answered it wrong. I am not talking about what makes you happy, like going to the gym, or your job, but I mean the true reason you wake up every day. What is it that lights that fuse every morning for you to leave … Continue reading What sets your soul on fire?
Sometimes the value we find in something is determined by how hard we worked to get it. Not always, but sometimes. That is why I believe second chances are so much more valuable than the first. I have fought like hell for the second chances I have received in life. Imagine pouring your heart and soul into something but falling short and looking up to see you have been provided another shot at … Continue reading Second chances are more valuable
My word is my bond. That’s a vow of honesty and reliability to those in our lives that if we say we are going to do something, we do it. No questions asked. No backing out. This is where resiliency comes into play. Keeping our word doesn’t mean we can't make mistakes, but we must be resilient enough to pick ourselves back up each time we do to try again. The hardest part of keeping … Continue reading Word is Bond
A few days ago, I heard someone say "I treat people accordingly". The context was that you should treat people according to how they treat you. If people treat you with respect, you respect them. If they are selfish, you return the favor and act selfishly. If they cheat, you cheat. An eye for an eye of sorts. I understand this theory because I've tried living it myself for quite some time. There is no … Continue reading The difference between you and them
In order to grow, we must identify what growth we are looking for. What is it that inspires us? What are we looking to achieve throughout our lifetime? That’s a hard question to answer, right? The sixth principle of TRUE G.R.O.W.T.H. requires us to pour our heart and soul into everything we do, but that can be difficult without the sense of fulfilment that is associated with personal purpose. Let’s try a new way … Continue reading Work Backwards
As life gets challenging it's common to second guess ourselves and the road we are on. When life gets tough, we begin to question our capabilities and whether or not we should adjust our course to take an easier path. As rational beings, our instincts draw us to the path of least resistance but we must decide if that's where we want to be. When those difficult times present themselves, we must ask ourselves why … Continue reading Sometimes we need to re-evaluate